Old Feelings, New Places.

I know most of you who follow my blog know about the guy who stole someones pictures of a man and his daughter, told everyone it was him and his daughter. Told countless girls that he was a widower and active LDS. He told so many details... so many lies. Every morning about 6 am he would call me to wake me up... he would tell me how beautiful I was, and how excited he and "Sadie" were to meet me. He made all of these plans with me.. he led me on for two weeks. The morning that he finally told me the truth my world crashed. I cried for hours.. days. For someone to use someone else's life to lure girls in just for their own self satisfaction is not just wrong but it is damaging. As time went on, I thought very little of "Clark", who's name is actually Isaac, and his little girl "Sadie".  Last night I found out that not only was the man in the pictures a good friend of a girl friend of mine, but his little girl is actually "Sadie".  My friend messaged him on Facebook and explained everything that happened, gave him links, phone numbers, pictures and every detail of how his identity was basically being stolen. I was so happy that the real guy in the pictures finally knew what was going on.. I left her house last night feeling off though. Today has been a particularly rough day with pain and what not, but not only that, I can't get the pictures off of my mind. To be honest, I am jealous of his wife's life. I think honestly that is what it boils down to. That is the life that I want so badly. Just to be happy with someone, with a family. That is all I have ever wanted. 


So this guy Isaac is sick in the head, and I hope he pays for what he has done to not only the family he stole pictures from, but myself and other girls of the like. It is so sad that someone can use your own heart against you. I moved to Utah to get out of whatever life I was in, but honestly I have never been treated like I have been treated here. I have never had a guy disrespect me  as much as I have been disrespected here by multiple guys. They get into your head, talk down to you, and the saddest part of it all is that they gain your trust by using the Gospel as a crutch. I was warned about Provo, but I was naive and I didn't listen.... it is time to start listening. So I am moving. I am applying to two different colleges: Utah State University in Logan, Utah, and Southern Utah University in Cedar City. I am seeing which one I get accepted to, and then that is where I will go. I know Logan gets colder in the winter and is a really nice area, and I also have a friend and his wife that live there that can kinda show me around.. (hopefully), but living expenses are more there. Then in Cedar City, it is easier to get into the college, living expenses are cheaper but I do not know anyone that lives there right now. The friends I did have moved to Pennsylvania so it would be me starting over, yet again. I could rent a U-Haul and load all of my stuff up and make the 3 hour drive down there and just make it work. 


All I want is happiness. I want a husband and a family. Finding it in Provo is not going to happen. So it is time to leave. A year and a half later, and I am giving up in this area. I think a smaller town will be better for me anyway, I am from a small town so I should be able to adjust pretty well. My mind is made up that in the fall I am leaving, but the direction is still up in the air. 


I started at a bookstore that works with UVU, and right now I am working 30-40 hours a week which is nice. I do have an interview at Maurices tomorrow at 3, just to see what kind of pay they would offer me and it is an assistant manager position. So we will see what happens. I really like the book store to be honest, but I don't know what is going to happen. I think I am going to the Temple tonight with my friend Jaelynn so I will pray about what I should do while I am there. Anyway..  I have a lot of decisions to make lately and I really need the help from my Heavenly Father, and the support from my friends and family about my decisions. Putting everyone's more selfish feelings of wanting me to stay (I am the same way when friends move away) but I have to do this for me or I will never grow. I have been at a standstill for about a year, and now that my surgery is out of the way, as long as I can deal with the pain in my leg I should do just fine. Wish me luck!!!


xoxo